“It’s our fortieth college reunion, and we’re planning to have an Author Book Panel. Would you like to be a part of it? We have three men, and I mentioned your name as an author. We should have a woman, too. Would you like to join?” my college friend messaged me. We had taken several dance courses together. She went on to become an anesthesiologist. I went on to become a psychotherapist with a specialty in [...]